Thoughts on Thanksgiving

Notwithstanding the difficulties that families have living with autism, there are still many positive things we all learn from being around autism. Probably the one thing I find the most valuable is the Zen concept of living in the moment. The world around us may be falling apart, our budgets may be cut to the bone and discord among our politicians reigns, but that doesn't bother kids with autism. What do they care about all that and indeed, why would they? They are much more concerned with the present and what is right in front of them. They make us all practice "mindfulness", and teach us that we should focus our senses on what we are experiencing in the here and now rather than thinking ahead and anticipating trouble. I often wish that when I wake up in the middle of the night ruminating about all the things that keep me up I could have the presence of mind to simply breathe deeply and listen to the darkness. Occasionally, I remember to try to be in the moment and relax, but typically my mind is racing.

So, this morning in our staff meeting, it was particularly delightful to hear from our teachers about the things going on in their classrooms. One teacher told us of her excitement that some of her students are improving their abilities with AAC devices. On her last field trip, one of her students told her via his device to slow down and the other told her to get on the freeway! (She assures us she was going the speed limit!). Another teacher talked of the Thanksgiving luncheon that has become a tradition here. This teacher started the lunch a few years ago, inviting other classrooms to participate and families as well. Each year, more people join. So nice to give families the opportunity to join us and be with their children in a safe and fun environment. So, as I write, the students, staff and families are arriving to share the meal that many have prepared, including the students. These are all little things but how nice to hear about the simple things that make our days so wonderful. Next time I wake up at 3 am I will try to remember these simple things and embrace the day with the enthusiasm of our students. I have a lot to be thankful for,  not the least of which is the ability to be part of this great program and part of the lives of such wonderful people. Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!